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okay so theres this boy and he likes me and i do like him to. but hes afraid to come talk to me in school n stuff. i mean hes a freshman n im a sophmore and he has no problem talkin to my bestfriend and i jus dont kno what to do. i really do like him a lot. but its jus bothering me that we never talk and were going no where. i truly though he didnt really like me. but since he told my bestfriend hes moved to a lunch table closer to mine and my friends say hes always sneaking looks at me. so i really jus dont kno wat to do and im SUPER confused
any advice would be great
ill ratte 5 for anythin!! (link)
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Don't make the first move, but subtly look hot, flash him a smile, and sit or stand near him and he will probably talk to you. This way he also feels like the aggressor and the more risk factor you are the more he'll probably like you.
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Well I am 16 years old. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Guy one said he gave up on me, though I wasn't sure thats what I wanted. (link)
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I would love to answer your question, but the only question that shows up in my inbox is this...
Which guy should I go for??
Well I am 16 years old. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Guy one said he gave up on me, though I wasn't sure thats what I wanted.
What was your original?
Thanks,
Tammy
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Heres the story, I was dating this one guy he really cared about me more than anyone has before, but it scared me and he was pushing it on to hard. Taking everything I said the wrong way. He has liked me for over a year and a half. He was like my bestfriend before we dated. Now everything is awkward between us.
Then theres this guy that I have liked for over 3 years and I finally have my chance with him. I wanna go for it, but I am almost sure that the other guy would treat me better, but I want to try it with this guy cause I have liked him for so long.
I don't know which to go for. (link)
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If you are as young as this sounds, you need to date around and just tell guy #1 you're not ready for a serious relationship yet and you all are too close not to let something between the two of you be serious. Tell him you need to date around more, see what's out there and be young. Tell him that you absolutely care about him and respect him and are so sorry if this is hurting his feelings and that you know you can't expect him to sit around and wait for you. The line I like to give to guys is "You're welcome to be a member of the Tammy fan club, but I'm not ready to designate a President yet." Also, regarding guy number 2- if you think he would treat you poorly- don't go for him, but if you're just not sure as you haven't gotten to know him yet and he hasn't gotten a chance to know your true personality and to respect and care for you, then let him take you out. (However let me add- if I was wrong and you are much older and have already seen what is out there- I would probably give different advice.)
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hi my name is julie and this guy at my school grabs my ass every once in a while. do u think that is ok? he is kinda hott!!! do u think that is a sign of him liking me? cause i actually kinda like it when he does that is it ok or is that harrassment even though i like it?
julie (link)
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I know when you're young it can be exciting to have guys paying attention to you physically, but the truth is that even if you "kinda like it" you need to act "schocked and appalled". You see this lets him know you have confidence and respect yourself and your body and guys are attracted to confidence so he will actually end up likin you more. If you don't- he will think you are this unconfident girl he can take advantage of and he will flirt with you for his kicks, not because he actually respects or "likes" you.
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well i like this one guy we are friends but i like him and i think he likes me and today at school he was all like saying how good i look today and i just felt like giving him a hug and saying yiou are so sweet thank u!!! what do i do next time he does it?
thanx
julie (link)
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This guy sound like a flirt and you both sound young. Chances are, you do look good, but I guarantee you there are others that look good to him too that he says the exact same thing to. Your response isn't too bad though, because it shows sweetness and naivity, which guys like. However, you cannot let him know you "like" him. The best response I think is to say "Thanks, I know... you're not too bad yourself" or "Oh "guy's name" stop being such a flirt, I already know you want me (wink wink)"
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