I go by Ahnee, to some. and you.
I live in Orange County CA, and it's not as great as it seems. it's just as shady as everywhere else but we're polite enough to keep it behind closed doors. Great.
I'm in highschool.
I have an opinion on just about EVERYTHING, but won't give it to you unless you ask.
I talk to people.
Sometimes i can just be a brutally honest bitch, don't ask me a question you don't want a real answer to. I refuse to coat my thoughts in sugar
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There's this kid in my english class, Michael. I didn't even know the kid till the week before Christmas break. The day before we got out for Christmas break, I was playing a game with some of my friends and he walked out of no where, sat on some desk by us (I was sitting on the floor, so he was above me and looked down my shirt), and said, "Whoa. That's niiiiice." And my friend looked at him and said, "Uh, Michael? You're weird." But, he just ignored her and sat there staring at me (More like my boobs). Then Wednesday I dropped something and I bent down to get it. He walked by, looked down my shirt, said that stupid, "Nice," thing again, and smiled at me. THEN, on friday I kneeled down to reach a book (His desk was behind me.) and when I turned around, he was staring at my butt. On Friday, I walked by his desk because I was trying to go ask my teacher something. He moved his arm closer to the side I was going to be walking by and he kind of brushed up against my butt and when I turned around he was smiling at me again and staring right at my boobs and then when I was walking back he said something to me, but all I could catch was the word "sexy." Near the end of the day, he came up to me and tried to touch my boobs or something and I was like, "Excuse me. Get away from me, okay?" and one of my friends came up behind me and he's like, "Back off, faggot." THEN, he finally left. But, he's gonna end up doing something again Monday. I KNOW he will.. The thing is, after Wednesday, I told him to back off and same for Friday. Now I don't know if he thought I was joking or WHAT the crap the kid's problem is, but he won't leave me alone. Ugh, what should I do? (link)
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well you need to tell him seriously that you're not interested, that what he's doing is pissing you off, and if you're concerned about hurting the boy do all of this nicely. although if you're not concerned about that tell him to F Off.
If it's still going on after that, complain to someone higher up. yes, this is sexual harrassment and a serious problem.
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i was having a problem earlier about dealing with my then current school; basically it was just about going to all of my classes. on thursday, i found out, because of my lack of attending that school, i can't go their anymore. Which is perfectly fair. It's not another public school, it's 'thereputic', to say the least. But i don't think that's the point.
a few years ago when i was in sixth grade, a boy moved away that i really, really liked; all the way across the country. And i've only recently put that behind me. Now, two years later, i find myself in a similar situation. There's a boy i've liked for a few months now, and i don't think i'll see him so much anymore.
And i don't know much to do. I can't go up to him, and flat out tell him that i think he's sweet. I'm not really that in-your-face. And don't think i'm a basket case who everyone hates at that school, either.
That wasn't it, i've got to talking to this boy (he's one of my best friends twin brother) and he's told me i looked good, and on thursday when i went to school, from across the room in class, he's licked his finger and put it on his shoulder as if to indicate 'hot'. He's pretty in-your-face. He'll pick me up from behind when he see's me, and when he comes to the door a lot when his mom is picking up his sister, he talks with me.
i've got to liking him, a lot. but i don't know how to end this. I'm pretty confident that i need closure. I will ending up seeing him some because of his sister, but i won't be in school anymore, so i don't know what to say.
any advice or whatnot is welcome. (link)
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mention casually that you'll be changing schools, like "yeah im not gonna be here anymore though, im going to ******". if he asks for your number or something you'll know he's actually into you too.
Although, if you don't want to talk to him at all anymore you could probably just tell his sister or someone else that you said bye to him. like "oh yeah, tell your brother i said bye. im switching schools". just be mellow about it
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Okay this is Haley...again! So this is the story...I have a friend lets call her Sue? And she really is a fun person to be around we have the best time! And last year i dated her boy-friends best friend! And i dont know why i did because he was not a person i should have been with (but i think everyone goes through where they just wanna rebel and try to figure out who they really are) but he smoked pot and got messed up all the time and Sue's boyfrined does too! And see me and her arent like that we go to church and know better!! But i finally got me head back on level and ended it at the begginning of the summer! And now i'm dating "the one" i know and Sue cant stand it! She all the time tells me that me and Nick are still in love and we just dont know it! But i swear i regret ever dating him and i dont care or wonder i am completely happy with Blake!! And she's all the time trying to get me to go over to her boy-friends house bc Nick will be there...?? And she's always throwing up Blake's ex-girl friend in my face...??? I mean what am i to do? And when i dont go with her she like gets mad and i always have to be the one to call her and make things better...ya know? What am i supposed to do? Please help me!! **Haley** (link)
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she's probably just jealous that you could get out of a relationship you knew wasn't good for you and she can't. Misery loves company.
Explain to her that you're finally happy with someone and if she's your real frend she'll be happy with your decisions. Tell her you have no interest in this other guy and now you're just really into someone else. hopefully she'll finally get it
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