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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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Ok well one of my friend likes my other friend so I said go for it and he asked her and now she's mad at me because I told him to ask her out.
And now I feel realyl bad for it and she's so mad for it and I just feel so bad for them and myself. What should I do?
Apologize. Tell her you didn't mean any harm by what you said. If she's still mad, just give her time to cool off. If she stays mad, be thankful you didn't stay friends with such a jerk off. =]
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Ok, i tried putting in a tampon and i wasnt tense or anything because i really want to be able to use them! anyway i cant get mine to go all the way in. actually i cant really get it to go in at all. i know where its supposed to go but it feels really uncomfortable when im trying to put it in. does it just do that the first couple times? and once i get it in i will get used to it and all that? thansk for your help and i will rate all helpful advice! :D
Wearing a tampon shouldn't hurt, but it can be uncomfortable the first few cycles of using them. If you keep practicing after about your third period, you'll get the hang of it.
Make sure you are standing in a comfortable position as well as staying relaxed. Practice makes perfect. Once you get it in, push it up until your fingers touch your skin, then insert it. If it's not far up enough, it hurts. If it's in at a weird angle, it hurts. If you aren't bleeding a lot, it hurts. Bascially a lot of things can go wrong while using tampons, i've been using them for three or four years, and I still sometimes have to go through a few before getting it right.
Don't get frustrated. Just keep trying.
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My family is having a Halloween, party mainly because we have no plans on Halloween, and me and my friends and my brother all don't want to go trick or treating. We figure it's a good idea since probably most people don't have plans besides handing out candy haha. But then we thought, well Halloween is on a school night, and what if people can't stay late, and also what if some of our friends have plans, like trick or treating anyways? That makes us think we should do it on the weekend because there might be more people and we could party as long as we want. But if we do that, none of us (nor my friends!) will have anything to do on Halloween :[ So there is pros and cons to both. What would you do if you were in this situation?! Thanks!!!!
I think you should do it the weekend before. Make the party that much better. For Halloween, me and my friends just walk around town. Dorky yeah, but we've done ever since we were to old to trick or treat. You don't have to do anything special for Halloween. Stay in with a few friend's a watch scary movies till about 10 or so. They always have scary movie marathons.
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I shower at night, sleep with my hair in a ponytail (or i use three ponytail holders on one ponytail, at the top, middle, and end) and then in the morning i style and dry it.
What are some products i can put on it in the morning to make it not be disgusting by the end of the day??? links!
Garnier Fructis - Sleek & Shine Serum. You can get this just about anywhere. Wal-mart, K-mart, Target, etc.
http://content.ulta.com/images/products/large/2119714.jpg
Or Redken's Glass01 hair serum. It's more expensive, but it works wonderfully. I got mine at a hair salon, so i'm not sure where else you could find some. But just look around at your hair dresser's or somewhere.
http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/I/219C01NYNNL._AA280_.jpg
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I noticed today that one of my dog's eyes is like cloudy. If it matters its the left one. What could this be? I looked online and it said it could be from lack of calcium or something like that, but i'm pretty sure my dog gets enough calcium. Could he be blind in one eye?
he's a wire fox terrier, male, almost 3 years old.
thank you
It could be cataracts, which very well could cause blindness. But i'm no vet, and I doubt anyone else on the site is either.
You really can't trust the internet, and I wouldn't be so sure if you could trust the advice you get on this site.
You really need to call the local vet and see what they say about it. It could be serious, it could be nothing. But you need to know for sure.
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ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he never responded. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused
I think you most certainly go to the football game. You can't let a boy run your life to the point that you don't do things you want for fear of him being somewhere/doing something. Don't go because he's going to be there, go because you frigging want to.
If he makes the choice or acts as if he wants to talk to you, by all means talk to him. If he doesn't, don't let it bother you. And if it secretly does, don't let him know it. Have fun- You may like him, but you don't have to be miserable if he doesn't like you back.
Dress comfortably. Don't try to hard to impress, because it will end up blowing up in your face. Dress nice. A little makeup, something cute with your hair, but where something that isn't too "showy" or "flashy"
Let me know what happened.
Email me or something: choke0nlove@yahoo.com
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I really want a boyfriend but i dont know how to make guys know i want one. i dont think i am very pretty so that doesnt help but i see people in the hallways with boyfriend and girlfriends and they all look so happy! i really want that! i want a boyfriend that knows me really well and really likes me but i dont know what to do. please help!
You'll eventually find the right person.
It takes time, and if you continue seeking love, you most likely won't find it. It'll happen when you least expect it - I promise. ;]
Just remember you can't have a boyfriend if you don't get out there and meet some boys. Be friendly, and make them now you are available (just not in a desperate way)
It will eventually happen, just remember a watched pot never boils.
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so i have this boyfriend who is relativly new, but we both feel like its time to have sex, he is quite abit older and more experienced, but its not like hes pressuring me at all! i really want to, but my question is just pretty much sex... i just need to know everything about it, especially wat i should do as being a girl to make it really good for him?
thnx in advance
xxx
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Any decent advicenator wouldn't give you actual tips on how to have sex with your boyfriend. There are many young advice givers and seekers on the website, and it's inappropriate to ask how to's on sex.
Go to this website for all the information you could possibly want on sex:
www.coolnurse.com
Be sure that this is what you really, for sure, without a doubt, want. Are you going to regret doing this later? If you get pregnant will he stay with you? What if he has an STD? If he's had sex before, then there is always the possibility. Ask yourself all these questions before having sex with this boy.
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Whats a good eyeliner (that I can get at Target) in a dark brown??
links pleaseeee!
It depends on what kind of eyeliner you are looking for. Do you want liquid, pencil, or a glimmer stick? We need more information.
My favorite eyeliner is just about any glimmerstick from Avon. Seeing as how you can't get that from Target, i'd say your best bet would be getting plain pencil eyeliner. It's easy to use, it's not messy, and best of all it's cheap.
http://www.maybelline.com/images/products/thumbNails/59TC_m.jpg
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I cant find this song..
it goes something like
"I slept with my best friends baby sister"
its country Im sure..
&&
Its a country war song type.
Its about a guy looking down on his friends
a part goes..
"i remember when we use to play war in the backyard when we were younger"
or something close to that.
My sister's friend died in the army, and she wants to know that song..
Im sorry if i totally messed up the words to the second one..
Thank you!!
Take the lyrics you know for sure, and go to this website:
www.letssingit.com
On the top of the page, type in a short amount of the lyrics. Be sure to click "lyrics" in the scroll down box beside of it.
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What’s a good hairspray (I have pretty curly hair) that will hold it, work in wind, etc, and still be mildly soft??
Preferably one that doesn’t smell like poo...and that i could get at target
Links please!
Kenra.
It's a pretty penny to be hairspray, but it's really, really good.
But if you have curly hair, and you want something soft, I suggest Aussie Sprunch Spray.
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So.
I wax my eyebrows! =D
Except, I have tan skin…and where I wax its really white and noticeable..
And I don’t want to cover it up with my eyeshadow…
Soo im wondering what to use.
A concealer? Some sort of foundation? …a bronzer…?
Please give me links =] thankssss
You're on the right track. Foundation & concealer are both good ideas. Honestly, that's all you need. Just dab a good concealer on the area, and blend very, very well.
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Hi. I am a 17-yr-old female & I've only had sex twice: about 8 months ago (my ex used a condom) and 5 months ago (again, he used a condom). I've been on the Yaz bc pill for about 9 months, & about 2 and a half weeks ago, I started spotting just about a week after my period. I guess its spotting, b/c my discharge is REALLY light tan, like a little brown tinge, but it smells the same & has the same consistency. I don't know what this is, but I spotted all the way up to my period, which i am on now. my period is normal, except for more brown blood than usual. I am really paranoid about STDs and I am going to the ob-gyn in the next few weeks or so. does this sound like a disease?
No. At most it sounds like an infection; but it might not even be that.
When you're on BC, you spot in between your periods most of the time. Sometimes you're blood will be bright red, other times it may be dark brown, and most of the time it'll be somewhere in between. Near the beginning of my period it's red, but the longer into my period I go, the darker it gets. It's completely normal, but always get tested just in case and NEVER stop using condoms =)
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okay. i wanna know if there a practice doll somewhere out there thats just like a baby it needs to be fed and needs attention alot just like a baby. i really need it so because of school. alot of people already got em but i dont know where to look can someone help?
They are called "Empathy Babies" The brand I had was "Baby think it Over" Very Hi-Tech.
Try googling it.
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i recently hurt my knee (i have a torn MCL)
and my boyfriend is coming back into town this weekend and im worried about comfort during sex hes a pretty big guy and im just wondering what kind of position might be the most appropriate
thanks
You on top if you be sure to keep pressure off your knee. You could do the spooning position. (I'd say this one is your best bet) Or hold the hurt leg out and have him be very careful about holding up his weight.
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So yesterday, pretty much this morning, around 12:30-1:00 I had sex with my boyfriend. I lost my virginity to him and I don't regret it. We had a little to drink and then just ended up making out...and one thing lead to another and we had sex. It wasn't to painful and didn't realize that I had bled until I took a shower this morning and noticed my clothes. So yeah, we didn't use any protection but he said not to worry he didn't cum. I'm kind of nervous but not too worried about it, I just really don't want to get pregnant. We had sex for about 5 mins only; maybe evben less. Do you think I should get the morning after pill or am i ok?
If you've had unprotected sex then you are never ok. No matter what, got it?
Whether it lasted 5 minutes or an hour doesn't matter, what matters is that you had sex, you didn't use protection, pulling out isn't effective, and you can still get pregnant from precum. Next time be safe, and use protection. Don't rely on your boyfriend's self control, because most likely he doesn't have much. =]
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Ok,so I'm a guy and I want to dress as a cheerleader for Halloween and I want to look like a real girl cheerleader.Not just a guy in a cheer outfit.Where is the best place to get the outfit and also,where do I get the pantyhose that cheerleaders wear? I live in Pennsylvania if that helps.Any and all suggestions will Def help.
If you are in highschool, ask one of your fellow female classmates that cheers for their school uniform. If you have no luck there, try Wal-Mart's Halloween section or the Internet. As for dressing as a girl, all you really need is make-up & a wig. And maybe stuff your "bra".
And if by pantyhose you mean spankies, those may come with the uniform you get. If not, check with sporting good's shops. They usually have them. Just ask for cheerleading briefs.
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I recently got these really cute boots but they give me like an extra three inches and im already wicked tall. I dont know how to walk with confidence when im tall because i am alot taller then most the boys with the boots on. please help!
Contrary to what the girl below me said, most tall girls wish to be shorter. I know i'm 5'6, and would kill to lose a few inches. Then again, short people probably do want to be tall. Aww, people always want what they can't have. I do find it weird that the girl below me claims to want to be tall, but has a username shortshortSHORT. Hmm, I find that strange.
Anways, if you like the boots then wear them, and screw what anyone else says. Don't worry about other people.
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Does the Pill really make your boobs bigger ?
Well im going on it . And I have to go to that doctor person for it. and jw what all do they do to you ??
P.s. ( I'm soo scared )
15/f
( & if this matters. i use to msterbate & i do get fingured form my bf. )
The pill is full of hormones that can make your body do all sorts of strange and peculiar things. Yes, your boobs may get bigger.. but you'll also gain wait. Or you could lose wait. Your face may break out, or clear up. You never really know what it'll do to you.
Don't be scared. Pointless to say, but neccessary. It's really not bad, just a part of life. It doesn't matter if you masturbate or get fingered, it's irrelevant.
Don't worry.
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can you give a blow job with braces? i have two small hooks on the inner side of my teeth and my boyfriend wants a blow job but i don't want to hurt him. do you think i can still give him one?
I'm not sure why everyone makes such a huge deal about sex & braces. It really makes no difference. You CAN give head. You don't use your teeth when doing it anyways.
I would say be careful, but you should be careful anyway.
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