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I am 19 years old and I am a female my partner Is also 19 years and we loved each other. I and my boyfriend had been dating for a while now. Until one day we did sex . Then I moved away from him to go further my studies . One day he video call me to show him my viganal part in the phone . The problem with me I have never seen such things before nor showing it but once I told him that he was like are you shy of me ? Why are you shy if I had slept with you already?? What should I do?? Should I show it to him? And the time when am going to be with him is very far and he might think am ignoring him. I need advice please. (link)
It's illegal to do this if the person on the other end can and does distribute it to others just so you are aware. It can lead to big trouble especially if this person breaks up with you or starts showing it to others without your knowledge. You may be an adult however, if you were any younger it would also be illegal because it would involve a minor.

Doing this is about the dumbest thing you could ever do. I would be weary of this guy and his request. You need to tell him that this isn't going to ever happen and do not feel like he should have asked and get a sense of what his motives are. You might want to move on from him too. Anyone that puts you in a position that is highly inappropriate or makes you feel icky is one to avoid. You need to put him in his place at the very least.


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