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I need to know if my marriage is binding. My hubby used his non-legal Ca Drivers license to show proof of ID when we got married in 1997. When I tried getting a copy of our marriage certificate there wasn't any. Under both our names, there isn't any work tax or driving records under my hubby's non-legal biological name only under his adoptive last name. The judge took that from him for his 6th felony DUI and so got a new license, which after DMV finally figured it out after 26 yrs suspended that as well (link)
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An even bigger question is why would he use a false document in the first place to get married or for anything else? You can no doubt find a lot of trouble for using it. Is your marriage legal? There have been court cases like this especially in Ontario, Canada where the judge ruled that it was not because the person was living under false identity.
Why are you guys breaking the law to begin with and hiding who you are? If the DMV has suspended his license after 26 years and figured out he's not using his real name than that isn't right.
If someone has committed 6 DUI's there's a problem there especially if he tried and got a license with a false name on purpose. Your morals not your marriage documents is more important. There's lessons here to be learned that frankly haven't.
If you want to know if everything is legal I would consult a lawyer and tell them the truth about what went on in '97 the DUI's and use of false ID and let them figure out where you legally stand. In the meantime please use your real identity from hereon out.
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I didn't know any of this crap until this past November. I have been using the name on my ca drivers license and have no intention of changing it, which pisses him off I don't care if he is mad. DMV already knows he committed fraud with them. And told him exactly what he has to do, told me something completely different but I already knew most of it. He is a bold face liar and is proud of it. He had his mom bring over his original birth certificate under Fidler. He has both certificates one under Ruts his adoptive legal name and his biological one under Fidler. When the judge took or suspended his license under Ruts he thought he would be sneaky and apply for a new license under Fidler, had everything needed to get a license. He didn't check the box asking if he had a license under a different name and got his new license. He was able to renew it 5 times until they finally figured out what he did and suspended it or wouldn't renew it pending an investigation. When I tried to ask the officer at the DMV office in Vallejo fake hubby rushed me out of there so I wouldn't find out anything. So as far as I'm concerned he is a lying loser and I'm not married to him and don't care to be. Karma is already making his sneaky ways not so special for him. Thank you for your time
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