25 Female. Just a down to earth girl living life to the fullest. Ive had the ups and downs. Depression/anexity/family problems/sex life/relationships. I work in outpatient physc and love giving my best advice as possible.
Gender: Female
Location: Massachusetts
Occupation: Outpatient Pysc
Age: 25
Member Since: November 12, 2013
Answers: 69
Last Update: March 16, 2024
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im girl 17, im in 3rd year in high school... i told my classmate(boy) who is also my crush that i like him, in the concrete i gave him a note, saying i like him bc , i felt really relieved after i told him...two days later, i asked him to talk about it bc he didnt give any respond and i wanted to how he feels , during school (we didnt study , we just played games etc), i asked him if we could go and talk somewhere private , he said it is nice that i told him about my feelings for him, he repeated it 5 more times :D :D, he also told me that he know how hard it must´ve been for me to hide my feelings from him... then he said he doesnt have time for relationship bc he has activites besides school (he plays guitar, he dances)...and also he told me he firstly wants to develop more spiritually..(if that makes sense) bc we go to catholic church , ..and then he hugged me saying that we should continue to be friends and he told not to act nervous before him,
if he´s my classmate should i continue to be friend with him ? , should i ignore him when the new school year starts, or should i talk to him like we used to ?,
THE MAIN QUESTION: he asked the whole class if we want to spend some days on his family´s cabin, i like the post on fb he wrote about it, but i dont know if i should go, wouldnt it be awkward? i didnt say goodbye to him on last day of school, i just ignored him, but i met him yesteday and we briefly said hello to each other ...so should i go or not ?? please help me :)
i thought he liked me:/..thats why i told him..if i knew i would never told him...now i guess i ruined my friendship with him..
i also didnt say anything about rejection to my family or my friends..im just kinda ashamed..my one cousin and my best friend know that i like him but they dont know i got rejected :/
PS: he doesnt want to be priest or something like that he is just little bit more religious (link)
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Honestly! Its your highschool year. You should go girl! Not for him by for yourself. Go with a friend and if a lot of people from your class are going then you should too. You shouldn't feel the need to exclude yourself from these things because of him. Reading this I think he does like you. If he didn't, he wouldn't take the time to talk to you. Ignoring him isn't the answer, just simply be friends. He seems like he has a lot going on and isn't ready for a girlfriend and that's okay! Maybe the more time you spend together the more his feelings will develop. He gave you legit reasons and had good answers. He was honest and kind. It is okay to be embarrassed. Things happen but he was very comforting and that's great. He acknowledged your feelings and still wanted to continue your friendship. Then again, if you think this is going to be hard for you to be friends with someone you have feelings for, do not continue the friendship. I know the feeling of wanting someone you cant have. I say just try being friends and if it hurts too much just try and move on. I say go to the house and have fun don't focus on him/it too much. You have all summer to do what you want, you don't need to worry now what to do next year if you should ignore him just go with the flow! hope this helps xoxo
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Thank you for your help...i think i will continue being his friends..and also on january everyone from our class was supposed to randomly pick up a paper where was written name of one of classmate, and then we should more talk, help, be more interested in this person from our class we picked up, my crush (HIM) picked me up
he also wrote me a valentines message saying :"im glad you are" but i guess it was only bc he picked me up
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