I am too old and out of shape to beat around the bush so I'll give it to you straight. If you want sugarcoating go to the candy store, you won't find it here. Sometimes a little good old fashioned honesty is just what the doctor ordered!
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i've been in love with the same guy for about 3 years. we've been dating for a little over a year. we've *lived* together for about 4 years.
i used to always look forward to him coming home. and i've never been more sexually attracted to a person as i am to him. but lately i've become almost bothered by his presence. idk if this is a fluke thing or if i'm seriously just not into it anymore. we haven't been fighting or anything, i'm just kind of bored i guess. we haven't had sex in two weeks. and i relish my alone time more than i do my time with him. i've felt like i was losing interest before,( and i know this happens a lot in relationships, especially when people live together,) but i've always found myself getting over it and feel like we're lovers and best friends again. but for about a week now i've been using any excuse i can to not see him. i feel smothered and trapped. we just signed another year lease on our apartment. i don't want to hurt him though, he's extraordinarily sensitive and can act like a little bitch sometimes. which is also bothersome. i need a man, not a girl. idk what to do. maybe it will change in a couple of days or something but for now, i just want him to leave me alone. (link)
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I would almost be willing to bet the farm that within the past two weeks you have met someone you are comparing him to... The best advice I can give is to leave him immediately. He deserves better! Everyone deserves a partner who appreciates them, not someone filled with so much contempt that they would refer to the person who loves them as "a little bitch"! This man seriously needs to kick you to the curb and find a new room mate!
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And I'd be willing "to bet the farm" that you're single and have been for a while. My advice to you? Stop giving advice and stop being presumptuous. Because the funny thing about being presumptuous is that you could be wrong.
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