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So long story short, about two years ago I went on 3 dates with the man of my dreams.
Unfortunately it was a little bit of an LDR and I also wound up losing my job and fell into a bit of a depression and we just drifted apart. Not in a bad way, just like we stopped communicating. Funnily enough, I drove past him about three months ago on the interstate, he looked at me and I looked back at him and and I didn't know what to do, so I just kept driving. I think about the missed connection all the time and what could have been.
Tonight I logged onto the site I met him at and to my surprise he was online! Unfortunately I couldn't message him right away because it takes 48 hours for your profile to be approved but I have butterflies just thinking about it.
I really really liked the guy and had a lot of fun on our dates and things have totally changed for me since then. I'm in college now (I'm only 20) and working and I'm about to be on a two week break so it would be the perfect time to see him again.
My biggest worry is he won't be interested in seeing me again.
How can I ask him to see me again after what happened?
Should I tell him the truth and just say I want to see him again? That I've got my life all figured out now and tell him how much fun I had on our dates and hope he feels the same?
Also things get more complicated from here:
He's quite a bit older than me (though I like older men) and he's also much wealthier (I liked him for his personality though) I feel like I don't have much to offer him besides my youth and beauty until I graduate with my degree and get a really good job.
I don't want him to mistake me for a gold digger trying to get back with him to use him.
He was so handsome, funny and educated. When he met me I was only 19 and I feel like I've grown a lot more mature since then and I'm afraid he's going to remember the bad things about me. Like for instance I bragged on our first date about how good I was at wearing heels and then I fell right on my face in front of him.
I talked about stupid stuff and had really strong opinions back then on some things that I expressed with him. I was too scared to drive all the way to him so I made him drive to me all three times.
Aaaaah what do I do?
hi there,
maybe just start small just a little message like hi how have you been or how are you, i wouldn't jump right in and as for the him not liking you, if he didn't like you would he of really took you on a second and third date?
hope everything goes fantastic for you and i would love to hear how it turned out, you can find me on facebook nikki helper ive just started out.
good luck :)
(Rating: 5) thank you! I don't use facebook but I wanted to tell you here how much you helped me!