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I'm 11, and i seriously think i am bi. I remember being young, not knowing what gay or bi meant, and I would play family with friends, sometimes i wanted to be a mommy with another mommy, or i would like to be a mommy with a daddy, or i would see men and women and think i wouldn't mind dating either. I like seeing guys shirtless, and I also have watched the Anaconda video a few hundred times because it turned me on. Not sure if it is because Nicki is more developed, or I'm bi. But i know i am not straight. I knew forever i wasn't into just boys. I've tried to tell my mom, but i feel she would prefer if i was straight and would only like guys, because she is constantly trying to find more evidence to shut it down. I've also been a little possesive of a certain friends. She has been getting close to a guy, and I want her to sort of not date him. Tbh, i could go either way, but not any women with man genetials or men with fake girl parts, that is gross to me (no offense). So what should i do/think? (link)
first of all you should not be ashamed of yourself.you are who you are whether that means that you like just boys or just girls or both.usually everybody when they start to figure out what their preference is,they try to hide it or just pretend that it does not exist when that is different from normal.but that is so wrong.i mean you are lucky enough that nowadays it is much more acceptable to be gay.bi etc.and of course your mum would prefer it if you were straight but you are not!so what?she will have to accept it someday and if she really loves you she will not mind in the end.i suggest you do what you think is the best for you whatever the consequences or reactions.be proud of yourself and just do you really.if you are happy with it and you embrace it everyone will too.-xoxo hope this helped


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