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Q: Hi, so I am 19 and I am a virgin and I have never kissed anyone, I am what you would call a good girl and I like to take things slow.
Most people say I am too mature for my age, so guys my age don't really fancy me.
The other night I met this guy who I have a lot in common, and he said he likes me and he wants to take me on a date... now the catch is that he is frikkin 32!!!
He is really hot, but I am scared to go out with him, because as an older guy he will probably want to take things fast and he probably is really experienced... and the whole thing scares me as I don't feel ready... and older guys usually wait 2 or 3 days to have sex with a girl!! I don't know if I should date him, but I really like him.
HELP!!
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I think your hesitation in and of itself says a lot. We all have instincts and far more often than not, it turn out that our first instincts are the correct one if you will.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with people who have age differences being friends. However, when it comes to romantic relationships, an age gap only becomes less important as you both grow into an older age. Basically, the older you are, the less important it is.
Considering you are still young, and given your apprehension, I personally would suggest that you avoid seeking a romantic connection. As you say, people tell you that you are mature for your age. Well, recognizing that this is the case is a mature decision.
Be friends but don't worry about the rest. I know you want to have someone in your life and you feel like boys your age aren't into you. But, I'm sure that there has to be somebody out there on a similar level of maturity in your age group. And if you have to go with a guy a bit older, you'd probably be better off with one 2-3 years older instead of 12-13.
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Thank you very much for your advice!
it really cleared my mind on things, I prefer to wait more for the right person than rush into things out of my comfort.
Thank you again!!
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