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I was invited to a big back woods party that I really want to go to because I've been stressed. However, it's on the same night that I usually spend with my boyfriend and the person throwing the party doesn't like my boyfriend. The owner of the property has no problem with him. I don't want to let my boyfriend down, but, I also need some fun. What should I do? Please help asap! Female 19

Dear invited,

In my view, you have these options:

1. Attend the party alone and upset your boyfriend.

2. Spend the night with your boyfriend and sacrifice.

3. Go the party with your boyfriend and risk a confrontation.

4. Discuss the situation with your boyfriend and let him suggest a solution.

5. Discuss the situation with the party host and follow his suggestion.

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