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So basically I'm a girl who has a crush on her female friend. My friend has another best friend who she prefers more than me- but whether it's a crush or love, I defiantly like her more than a friend. But I've never been attracted to someone of the same gender before... I'm totally okay with being gay, but I'm just not sure if I am- and I'm not bi because (as I've said) this is the first time, and I know that she's not gay but is supporting of gay people, so do I tell her how I feel? Or continue to be the third wheel as I feel really sad, I don't know... Please no hate, I'm very young (13) and please serious answers... Thanks, Lea Wills xxx (link)
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This is a very important question that cannot just be answered at once. You are thirteen which means you are still figuring out who you are and who you're going to be and what road you want to travel down, so things can be a little confusing, but what i can say is nobody else can tell you how to feel or if you are ready to tell your friend how you feel, you have to decide for yourself. You do not know if she is gay or not, she is still young herself, so she is probably still trying to figure out who she is too. If you feel like you can't hide your feelings with her any longer, then tell her. If you would rather keep it a secret and you can live with only being friends with her, then keep it to yourself. This is your choice and nobody else's. Just know that whatever you decide is the right choice, it is still right. Let me know your thoughts.
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Thanks, your advice was really helpful- I think I'm going to just hide my feelings, and if I still feel the same way when we're a bit older, then I shall tell her.
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