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I have known this boy since elementary school and we are seniors in high school now. I never really liked him in this way until this year.. I sit at the same table with him And 3 other classmates with whom we share a friendship with that's hard to explain. One of my girlfriends at the table knows how I feel towards him And she notices how we fight like a married couple. I really like him And he talks to me like I'm his wife or something. We argue all the time but I think it's just a part of our chemistry. My question is how do I know if he really likes me the way I like him or if he's just joking all the time. By the way he's only dated white And Hispanic girls in the past And I'm African American And so is he. (link)
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Honestly, you're still quite young to be after this sort of stuff. But I'm not going to judge.
Some may disagree with me but I think only time will tell whether he likes you or not. I'm sure one of your friends will be friends with him or following him on a social media you both have so grab his username if you don't have it already.
Talk to him in private over text or private messaging and he may seem quite withdrawn at first. But keep making more conversation until you both become friends. He should trust you more after some time and may confide with you on this subject. If he doesn't, it might be a sign he likes you and is too shy. If he does like another girl... its too bad and seems like you've been friendzoned. But love is a risk even at your age. And, hey, there are always other fish in the sea.
Eventually, he will slip up and say something like 'your pretty' or 'he'd be lucky to have you' but it depends on the type of guy. The person who I experienced everything I said so far is quite a shy, self conscious guy. If he's loud and outgoing, its harder to tell.
But you having arguments like nobody's business is a flirting tactic. I've done it. And the casual, soft hits every now and again. Not hard and angry though. Just jokey and try doing it back. Just break the touch barrier once your friends in any way you can.
But remember, just be yourself. Don't over flirt or anything because it can turn out to be awkward for everyone around. It's hard to tell if he likes you at the moment, but there is a little sign saying he might. But don't get your hopes up. He could just be teasing. Hope this helps :)
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