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Hi,

I see life simple and to the point. I love to live, seriously. I am a music aficionado and live a very positive life. My screen name says everything about how I want to be identified :) Being new to this site should not discourage you from sending me a personal question. All I do all day is focus my attention on customer satisfaction. With the free time I currently have there is plenty of time to advice others, maybe not every topic, but on topics that I can relate to or have experience with at my age. I am part of the positive bunch in my circle of friends and hang with like minded people.
I feel I have accomplished most of my dreams at my age. I grew up in a very impoverish neighborhood living with my mother and stepfather. By age 15 my goal was to be alive and see 19 to graduate high school. By 19 I wanted to be an Engineer. So I applied myself to prove those who had doubts about my goal. I was accepted to a university right out of high school and a few years later made my mother happy by graduating. The story goes on and there is more to my story but you get the point. We only limit ourselves to a certain extent. I know we can do better so don't give up. Make me proud! :)
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Age: 36
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When I was 12 years old,I met a young man about 13.We met in church.We hanged out alot and we were close.He left the church with his dad who was singing there at the time.

I am 24 now and he is 25
I moved to another state,and he is still in California

3 years ago we got back in touch through Facebook.At first we were texting and talking always,and throughout this period we had times of seperation due to personal problems,not neccesarily with eachother. The times that we kept texting we just kept getting closer and closer.And we love eachother.


We are planning to see eachother in September.Ive saved money and Im happy.

The problem is is that I have beliefs.I am not Jewish,but I kep Shabbat and Bibical Feasts.And the Bible clearly states that I cant be un-evenly yoked with a non-believer.He does not believe in any of this stuff,whereas,I havent talked much about it.Hes very serious about me and wants to marry me.My mom is very strict about our Bibical beliefs and she won't have a heathen with her daughter.I also don't want to go to hell and lose the beautifullness I have with this man that I love.I feel torn.Should I stay or tell him goodbye and be with someone who shares in what I believe? I dont want to let him,even thinking has left me crying for hours at a time.Please,what do I do?? (link)
Hi,
I will keep it simple. Do you love him? Has he proven his love to you? If both answers are yes, then you know what you have to do. Love is hard to break if you both want it and no one can tell you who to love. Try not to worry about what anyone has to say. People like to judge, ignore them and prove them wrong. Opposites attract. Etc. :)


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Thank you so much!!




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