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Hi,

I see life simple and to the point. I love to live, seriously. I am a music aficionado and live a very positive life. My screen name says everything about how I want to be identified :) Being new to this site should not discourage you from sending me a personal question. All I do all day is focus my attention on customer satisfaction. With the free time I currently have there is plenty of time to advice others, maybe not every topic, but on topics that I can relate to or have experience with at my age. I am part of the positive bunch in my circle of friends and hang with like minded people.
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My boyfriend has clearly admitted to liking hentai and other cartoon pornography but can not get an erection with me. He swears up and down that I am not the problem, that he is attracted to me, yet, I flaunt my naked body around him all the time and not even the slightest bit of arousal is seen in him. He stays limp. Everytime I ask him it's always "I don't know, I tell myself to get hard and it doesnt happen". I cant say what type of cartoon porn he likes because he hasn't shown me any of it, so, I don't know if its kiddy porn, or legimite adult on adult...I just know that he is into that and not into real porn, he won't watch the real life porn or even have sex with me. What can I do to help change that besides draw a picture of myself and wear it on my body? (link)
Why watch cartoons when the real deal is in front of him in person?
Can you accept this person with this glitch? You can't change this person unless they want to change. Odd addiction to have.
If I were in your shoes I would move on. Trust me that there are people out there who want your body, mind, and soul for good use for life. :)


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Thank you so much!




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