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Hello there. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years now. At first I was truly in love with him but now I feel different. I dont love him like I used to. When I hugged him or kissed him or told him I loved him, I felt something. I felt like I was in love but I dont feel it anymore now. I love him so much and I want to be with him. He`s truly the best boyfriend Ive ever had. I really dont want to hurt him, he was hurt bad on his previous relationship. What should I do or what should I tell him? please help (link)
Hi, I completely understand where you're coming from. If you don't feel like you love him like you used to, then why drag on the relationship any longer? It's not healthy for either one of you. For you, to be lying to yourself or just staying in this relationship solely because you don't want to hurt him. And for him, to go on thinking that everything is fine. You oughta let him down easy, this sort of thing happens all the time. Sometimes relationships lose that "spark". Although it seems like that "it's not you, it's me" bullshit, it really is. Because it seems like he's not doing anything particularly wrong but it's that you just don't feel the same way anymore.

I hope that this helped you! X


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Thank you so much for your response. I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.




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