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19 Year Old Female
I met a guy in the beginning of the year of college. We started talking then at the end of the semester it kind of stopped out of nowhere. We came back the next semester and he had a girlfriend. Of course I was mad was mad, but eventually I got over it. I'm not going to lie it took a while but I did. He eventually broke up with her, and I was fine with where we were. Out of nowhere he sent me a text and we started back talking. Then one night he came over and he asked why we stopped talking. We found out that night that for some reason we both thought we did something wrong so we started back again. Trying to make a long story short (even though it really is) I was a virgin and I wanted to have sex with him. From the moment we started talking I knew he was the one. He was everything I wanted head, to toe, to personality. This happened the last month of us being in college. We had great times, and we had no label but we knew what we were. Nobody knew, and thats how we wanted it. But then he told me he wasn't coming back the next year and my heart sunk a little, but I pushed it to the side. But now it really happened and we said our goodbyes and I miss him like crazy. I'm tearing up while writing this. He was like my first everything and I knew this might happened but not this hard. I know long relationships really don't work, plus the temptation is a little more frequent when your apart. But I want to know is it because he was my first or can I really have feelings? I was use to waking up with him by me at least 5 times a weeks and now I probably won't ever see him again. How do I get over this? Do I let this ride out, or is there anything I can do? Any suggestions are appreciated. This is so hard. Thank You. (link)
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Yes,it is hard. He will probably always hold a special place in your heart and you will never forget him. If it is meant to be then he will come back into your life, if not then you have to move on and make a new life for yourself. It is so easy to lose yourself when you are in love and sometimes it takes a while to find yourself again when a relationship ends. You need to think about what you like and what is important to you and focus on those things. You need to bring things back into your life that are fun and enjoyable for you. Pamper yourself a little bit, you deserve it! If you don\'t sit around feeling sorry for yourself and dwelling on the pain it will ease up a lot faster. Get back out there, make some new friends and have the time of your life! You only get to live these tender years once so make the most of it!
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That the exact quote I thought of, I it meant to be then it will be.
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