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Aright, so a few weeks ago I snapped and told my best friend that I really really bloody liked her. Her response was that she knew that I liked her and had done for a while but still wanted the friendship. This hit me hard and so i asked for some space for a few days and she agreed. Its a few weeks from that and things are back to normal really, we talk like we did ect but im not sure if im over her if not what do i do? I dont want to end the friendship as you dont come across good friends often.... (link)
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You are obviously not over her and it will probably take quite some time. It sounds like you guys have a great friendship and you've decided to put that friendship first which is very difficult to do.
Your feelings for her won't go away just because she doesn't feel the same though. You'll have to live with those feelings while you remain friends and maybe there will be a time down the road when the feelings will be mutual. If not, the heartache will subside over time and when you meet another girl you're attracted to who feels the same way, the heartache will be replaced with feelings of infatuation and happiness.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
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