I am 14/f. I am a complex person and believe I am well beyond my years. Anyways I specialise, wait that makes me sound official, am better at talking and giving advice about sexuality confusion etc as a young teen like myself. I will give loads of my questions a try and not afraid to do so but don't blame me if you wanted my opinion and didn't get what you want.
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Okay so I'm mostly straight (I've only dated guys), but my first kiss was with a girl (I was at most 7 and my older sister kinda...you get the idea.) and I've made out with a female friend a couple of times.
I come from a strict Catholic family, from a homosexuality standpoint. But the times I made out with my friend, well... they were amazing. The first time we were just messing around and pretending that we were going to kiss eachother, but at one point our lips accidentally met. We both looked shocked for a moment, and then pulled in for another, and started to make out quite intensly. I was becoming a bit overwhelmed afterword, because my parents view it as sin and because we both had boyfriends (we were 12 for gods sake), but she reassured me that we were just practicing on one another. The second time, I was feeling aroused and invited her over. We ended up making out, each taking turns to stimulate the other, and eventually dry humping. We both decided then that that was the farthest we'd go, including 'scissoring'. But that was the last time because I freaked out and almost killed myself over shame.
Now I feel kind of bad, because I could tell that both of us were developing crushes.
I guess my questions are:
1. Is this sin? Should I be ashamed?
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2. should I contact her- the friend- and apologize? Its been 2 years, but we're still in contact.
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You like this girl a lot if you tried it on then that's serioyus it is not a sin at all you should try contacting her as well coz she may feel the same way you do so if you feel sexually aroused then try it on again don't confront anyone unless you 100% trust them!!!!
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