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Ok. I'm 16/f. So there's this boy I really want to get to know better in my class. I want to give him my number, or get his, or find some other way to talk to him. But I don't want to scare him off by just going up to him and giving it to him or asking him. That's not a good idea at all, it's way too strong.

If it helps, my teacher gives us class assignments where we turn around and work in groups of 4 with the people behind us. I sit right in front of him.

Also, if it helps, he's very gentle, very quiet and mature, very tall. I'm also tall, but I'm energetic, I talk a lot, and I'm a little clumsy. So when I trip, I make a lot of noise.

What do you think? How should I go about this? Any answers you may have are appreciated.

Hi there,

I think if you do assignments with him in class, he is probably more comfortable around you then you think. This means, you could write him a note during class asking him if he wants to have lunch with you or if he's doing anything after school, etc. Slip the note under his binder or somewhere only he can find it, then wait for a reply. If he likes you too, he will definitely write back and then you are on your way to hanging out with him outside of school. Once you become good friends with a guy, it is easy peasy to get his number/for him to ask for yours because you'll know eachother better than you do now. So, use a note to start talking independantly with him, see if he wants to hang out with you and then you'll not only get his number, you will become great friends.

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(Rating: 5) That's a WONDERFULLLL idea omg thank you so much! Merry Christmas to you :D
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