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18/m
So lately I have been having problems liking girls. I start to like them and like them for a month or so then my feelings fade away and get annoyed by them or get really picky of what they do.
I dated this girl for 11 months and she cheated on me and treated me like shit, about a month later or so I found a new girl and I liked her alot then as I said my feelings just disappear and I get annoyed.
This summer I found a good girl who genuinely liked me for me. I liked her a lot for about 2 months then one day was just sick of her and no feelings for her.
Why is this happening and how do I make it stop? It use to never happen to me. I was usually pretty spot on when I liked a girl.
Any help is appreciated! Thanks :) (link)
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It's always difficult when you put your feelings on the line and they're mishandled. It could be the reason why your having difficulty settling into another long term relationship. It also may be because your genuinely not interested in having a serious relationship with these girls. As to how to make it stop, that is the more difficult part; because only your capable of understanding how to do that. Nobody knows you better than yourself. Your off to a good start by talking about the situation. You stated this happened after a bad relationship, so I would start their. Work through the relationship yourself or talk to others, trying to resolve the negative feelings brought from it. I believe when we feel hurt, our feelings have a way of shutting down to prevent further pain and the only way to stop it is resolve the conflict that caused it. Even if it means revisiting times that we would rather not. Hope this helps.
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