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Hi,
I'll get straight to it. I can't keep "it" up.
I'm attracted to this girl, and every time we do it, I can get it up. And everything will be fine for the most part. To stop me finishing too early, I seem to keep stopping and starting. So I will continue, and like I said, everything will be fine. But then, I will go soft. And I'll try to get it up again, but I can't. I try to put it in, but It'll flop right back out again.
And it get's me really frustrated. I thought it was because of smoking, so I stopped. But it still happens. I'm comfortable around the girl, and she's given me the whole "You know I like you, even if you can't finish?" and it just feels patronizing - even though I know she means it.
So yes, I'm pretty sure I could sustain it if I were to finish early - but I want it to be good for her too, and so I don't.
Anything I can do or try?
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Aside from the advice you already have received I know of a product that may work. Adult novelty stores sell plastic rings that slide on and trap blood flow to male genitals so intercourse can last normal time frame.
They go by a very vulgar name that can't be repeated here but ask any of their clerks for this ring and they'll know. Provided you are 18-years-old and can enter the store this may be a possible short term solution but do see a urologist to rule out medical problems.
Also, if especially on NEW medication or even old with any changes look into whether there is sexual side-effects.
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Thanks - I have heard about these 'rings' and have been meaning to get one. Will pop in/have a look online and give it a go!
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