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At the end of November I found my biological siblings. I have a brother who is a 36 year old grown man. We bagan to talk through text and on the phone and seemed to gotten along well. My problem is that in the past month, he has sent me 3 digusting photos of his penis. I explained to him the first 2 times in a calm mannr that I am his sister and it is comple yr elt unacceptable behavior and makes me very uncomfortable. The third time, I lost my patience and decided to tell him like it was. He didnt seem to take me seriously...he is a great guy and we get along sooo well when he acts normal. Now I am in a debate whether to meet him and hope he processes it or run for the hills. I met with my biological sister and told her about him flirting with me, I did not tell her about his photos because I felt it was better unsaid. Is he not getting it? Maybe he is a creep?... Do I try and meet him? Help (link)
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No, don't meet him. He's as creepy as creepy gets! For me, the first time he sent you a picture and you told him to stop was you giving him the benefit of the doubt. That's more than I would have done, I would have cut off contact immediately after that! You gave him another chance and then he broke that chance. He is CREEPY and a potential rapist/child molester. He's not taking your no seriously when you tell him to stop sending you photos of his penis, how do you know he'll take your no serious if he tries to rape you? I know that sounds extreme and unlikely, but no I think he's definitely capable. What kind of person sends those pictures to his sister, regardless of whether you grew up together or not? A disgusting pig, that's what. PLEASE for your own safety DO NOT meet him. You don't need to meet him in person to realize he's gross, disturbing, and needs some seriously professional help.
I know it sucks because you've just found your siblings but honestly, you do not want this person in your life. By all means, continue a relationship with your sister but seriously, your brother is trouble. Stay away from him.
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