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Hey guys
So i have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months amd recently he has been not texting me as often, and just not showing much interest in me or being as caring. I have had boyfriends before but i am his first girlfreind. He used to send me these long texts about how he is the luckiest guy in the world and he never thought he would even have a chance with a girl like me and all that. Now i just usually get one word responses and he takes a long time to text back. :( its been getting on my nerves and i always ask, are you busy or sonething but he just says no. Is he cheating on me do you think? Or maybe hanging out with another girl? We are both in high school but we go to different schools. How can i find out if he is or what are some signs to look for? What should i do to make it last? Im lost please help me. Thank you:)
This happened to me :/
Without offending you, perhaps he's not feeling the relationship quite as much as you are anymore.
Usually, when people play away they make extra sure in the first few months their partner doesn't suspect anything-so I dont think he is.
I think that you need to talk to him. If he's ignoring you, remember that ignoring is a form of bullying-and it's obviously making you feel bad. If it does come out that he doesn't want the relationship anymore, it's ok-at least you adressed it and put yourself out of your current misery.
Don't be afraid to confront him about it either, the sooner you know, the sooner you can readress your situation.
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Thanks, and can you explain what you meant in the third paragraph about playing away?
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