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20/f last year I was raped by my ex boyfriend, long story short we drank (he led me to believe he was drinking but in actuality I was the drunk one,) when we went to bed I remember waking up to him doing the act. To this day I have not told anyone except a good friend, and my new current boyfriend (of almost 9 months) at the very beginning of our relationship, but I toned town the story a bit. Nobody actually knows everything that happened, and I can't seem to get over it. I have brought it up once to my boyfriend, and he consoled me (as well as wants to kill my ex) but I feel badly about the topic if it is to come up again, I don't want him to think I still think about my ex. Should I be over it by now? It makes me feel dirty and sick to think about it, I could cry.
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I am speaking from a personal experience i got raped and i was a virgin in one of the worst ways and today i am very angry but i have found Christ even before this occurred. and its easier for someone to not be in your shoes to try to understand but they really dont. Right now i dont feel compelled to tell anyone but what happened to you encouraged me to reply to you...i still think about it daily like what have i done but in your case look at the positive side, you have a new partner that is consoling you and he is that angry...its a daily process take each day as it comes yes it makes you think what your ex did to you was vile and is vile.
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I'm so sorry that happened to you, as well as happy that you were able to share that with me. It gives me comfort to know that you can understand how I feel because most people don't. I hope you feel the same
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