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Member Since: March 15, 2013
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Last Update: March 23, 2013
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I love my boyfriend a lot. I feel it in my heart, and I know it's true. But strangely I'm not in a constant state of love. I'm generally a cold person, and sometimes I feel nothing at all. I feel hollow like an empty shell. And when I feel like that I don't feel any love or anything at all for that matter. Do I love him? And should I reply with "I love you too" when he says he loves me and I don't feel love at that moment? I always know deep in my heart that my love for him is immense. I love him to death. I am so confused. Has anyone had such an experience? Is it normal? I don't know what to think and it irks me that I can't always love him. I want to. (link)
I know exactly how you feel. To be honest, I'm very cold and have anger management, so I generally hate and get mad at everything. I never got close to people, even my friends I've known for 9 years don't know how to describe me or anything. I've been in an amazing relationship for 13 months, we're young, but I believe I'm truly in love with him. At first, I didn't show it and didn't tell him anything about me, and even thought about breaking up with him two months into our relationship. But I decided to stick with it, because I said to myself if this is an on going feeling I'll do it, because it was only ever so often. And I swear, it was the best decision I ever made. He's my best friend, I tell him everything and I don't know where I'd be without him. Give him a chance, and the relationship. It's worth it.


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Thank you. I don't wanna leave him. I wanna love him more, like he loves me. The problem is I don't know which of my feelings are real. The times I love him or the times I don't feel any love at all.




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