I am a father of three, girl, boy, girl, all are now over 18. I have been married for 29 years as of 6-30-07, so yes, if you do the math I was married at 18, just after graduating high school. I am very aware of the pit falls of doing so, but we made it through the really tough times. I came to this site, because of my daughter, she also uses the site.
I am an author and have written three books, only one under this name, but it is not how I make my living. I am in business, working full time and I have a seasonal business in ponds, selling Koi, goldfish, water plants and supplies. I help people to plan and build ponds, as well as, maintenance if they need it.
I am not here for the ratings and could careless what you rate me. I will tell you things I know, I will tell you what you don't want to hear, but most of all, I will tell you things from my perspective. I have experienced a lot in my life, I have not lived with my head in the sand and I'm a realist, you want someone to blow smoke up your as*, don't read my writings, (I don't do fairy tales).
I am not so foolish as to think I am always right, I can only tell you what I know and give you something to think about. It is up to you to find out if I'm right or not.
Life is complicated, because people are complicated and one answer does not necessarily fit all, but that doesn't mean you should not consider what I say as a possibility.
Feel free to write me personally if you wish, there is only so much you can say in such a restrictive environment as this site is, it doesn't allow for proper conversation.
Thank you for coming to my column and giving me the chance to help.
E-mail: gibber@cableone.net
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Location: Minnesota
Age: 53
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i am a totall ignorant lately,from a couple months i cant get excited about almost anything and i dont care about anything,its good not to care about some stuff,but i dont care about anything and thats bad.maybe its apathy,i dont know...what should i do to get "better"?
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You know, they have drugs for that. That's what a lot of people will tell you, but I'm going tell you different. No matter what anyone tells you, you are not suppose to feel any particular way, you are just suppose to feel. Take yourself out of your normal if you can. If you're city, go to the country, etc.... Feelings are changeable and should be explored in depth. You need to find out why you feel as you do, never ignore them, but never allow them to rule your life and understand that you can change them. Be the whole person.
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