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I am 27, I am an introvert and I also suffer from depression.

I have no friends, I have not had real friends in about 3 years now. Each time I think of the idea I seem to shoot it down. I even had oppertunites to hang out with a few people and I find myself with very little interest in proceeding what seems to be no more then hi and bye. I ask myself " Why aren't. I interested in friends?" I can't seem to find a real valid reason other then they are drama and always hang out. I am young and should have friends but don't really want them?.

I know the feeling I'm on the same boat but then you get lonely and wish you could go out with friends at times too. I know this might be a dumb question but are you afraid to be with people cause some are and that's why they isolate themselves from others that aren't family I mean. People who don't like to be with others suffer from depression and if you go years like that you will eventually have suicidal thoughts and it would just go down hill from there. You don't have to make a big change just start a little at a time.Even though you are probably happy to be alone you will like to have some friends eventually some people you can go to when you need to get away from family if you got problems and want to share them among others your age. Also your friends could help you find that special guy too when you would like to find him can't really depend on the internet cause people can lie. I hope I helped you some good luck.

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I am married :-) but its not so much that I am afraid I just don't seem to want to try at all. I miss the good times I had eith old friends but do not want to make new ones. My old friends and I had many fights and it is not fixable.

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