Member Since: November 16, 2012
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Last Update: December 15, 2012
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Since d day of marriage I am being neglected by my husband though I was his own choice. Later I came to know he still loves his former wife & son & he talks with her over phone. Secondly it us his basic nature to since childhood to neglect his own family & to do anything for friends' families. For this reason his wife divorced him. It is only after their divorce that he has grown interest in her.I know everyone will say that he is a good person to help others & there is nothing bad in maintaining a friendly relationship with his ex-wife. But what about me? I am tired of severe loneliness & negligence. Plz tell me d ways so that he becomes homely & love me. It is useless to discuss with him. I have shown love & affection to him as many ways as I can. But all r in vain. I have tried to commit suicide twice but have not died. (link)
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The problem with guys such as your husband is that they have intimacy issues. I think your husband is from a broken home such as mine. If I'm not wrong, he has faced severe physical abuse during childhood. In situations like this, men tend to be cold and reserved at home and find solace in another home. Since they face physical abuse, a soft touch by a close family member is associate with the hard punches he got in childhood. hence he may also keeping a physical distance from those living close to him. Ask him about this childhood. if he has really faced abuse in childhood, he really needs help & consultation before he can open up to you. Good Luck!!!
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I think you are completely right and so does he. we are getting with a therapist about this and it is all because of you! THANK YOU!
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