Member Since: October 21, 2012
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Last Update: October 22, 2012
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Sorry if this is long. Ok so here is a bit of background information: I have this best guy friend, we are just so close. We've only known each other for a year but we text practically everyday from the time we wake up to the time we go to bed. He started sending these cute "best friend" pictures so then I started to as well but then he started to see more "love" pictures that were saying "I love you" in all these cute different ways so once again I started to as well. I have always kind of liked him but I just valued our friendship so much more and stopped thinking about anything happening between us. He has crushed on two of my friends and because we r good friends he told me and I told him who I would be crushing on at the time but lately he hasn't said anything. Almost every night he says "goodnight I love you" and I say it back and he sends the cutest good morning texts ever and I can't help but smile stupidly. Oh my goodness I just get this knot in my stomach and I feel all warm and fuzzy inside (I know cheesy but I don't know how else to say it).
My first question is: do you think he likes me? Or is this still a "friendship love"? My feelings r getting stronger for him and I'm afraid to get hurt. I just don't know what to think, please just be 100% honest and don't sugar coat it please and thank you.
Also we had a conversation the other day and he said something really sweet. I said "you're starting to make me blush" and he said "I actually don't think I've ever seen you blush before" I said "I know you haven't" he said "challenge accepted" I didn't really fully believe so I just told ok go right ahead but then he said "I will just you wait...I promise I'll make you blush like never before"
My second question is: why do guys want to see girls blush? I know it's cuz they think it's cute or whatever but how?
I'm f/16 and he is the same age (link)
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Many options here:
1) He has liked you the whole time, but he has been putting you in his pocket waiting for the right time, and he has been testing you through it.
2) He really likes you as much as you, it's just that you guys are too shy to tell each other.
3)He might try to get you to be his fuck buddy
4) He likes you and he doesn't know what to do to get you to noticed that.
What I would do is find out the type of actions he likes in a girl, like put out your cutest remarks, such as, if he likes the cuddly type of girls then be cuddly and sweet with anything but not to him to where he thinks you might be flirting, and maybe just give out a little stroke of sweetness to make him impatient. Do this Around him, until he can't take it anymore and tell you for himself his feelings towards you.
Let him suffer a little like this, but hurry! Don't let that wait for too long.
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