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Q: Hey, female, 18. Just moved into University about 4 days ago. There is a guy from my high school going here, in high school I thought he was so cute and we talked and all but I didn't think there was anything there especially because I was a nerd in the marching band and he was a star on the football team. Well, freshmen year, he was put in the same class as a close friend of mine and they had a nice little chat. She said he was happy that they chatted because she thought he was the biggest douschebag. So, we were texting and I told him that and that she's happy they chatted and he isn't a douschebag. He texted me back and said 'what the hell, i'm not a douschebag!' So, I just told him that he comes off as a little bit of one and he just replied back with "oh..." so I told him I didn't mean to offend him. We argued for a good 15 minutes eventually me getting to "well, most jocks are douschebags so it's okay, haha" just joking around and he said "I'm not the typical jock, (my name)" Like, he was trying so hard to prove to me (when I wasn't even the initial subject to our conversation even starting) that he wasn't a douschebag. He stopped texting me back after I told him that I never said he was mean, I just said he comes off as a little douscher. Now I don't know if he's mad, if I bruised his ego haha or if he does have feelings for me because he tried proving to me that he was a nice kid. I just don't know what to think about anything or even to what to say to him now. Help?
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Even if he likes you, you deserved to not get a reply. you obviously have some sort of friendship and he probably felt judged. You let him fall into a category.. "jock" and assumed he was like everyone else. and than did actually insult him. try apologizing. but if he liked you.. hope you didn't like him back because some people are turned off by judgmental attitudes.
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thanks, like i said to another answer, we are always honest with eacother. he called me a bitch once when he was in a mood, but i did talk to him and we are okay now.
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Hi, thanks for coming to my column.
The name is Diamond but Dia is fine.
20, female, jersey girl at heart. mixed race taurus natured woman.
So...the reason I made this was during the start of my senior year of high school I had reached a point in my life where I didn't want to live anymore. I was tired of fighting and didn't see the reasons to fight. It was a random stranger that made me realize I would be stupid to take my life and to stop fighting.
So if you think I'm going to tell you life gets easier, I'm not. Let's face it, it doesn't get easier. Through pain you get stronger and learn to open your eyes to those things that give you strength to live.
Mine happen to be music, writing, dr. pepper, anime, the color black, the way rain sounds, and an amazing boyfriend. What gives you strength to live?
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Jersey Age: 20 Member Since: March 18, 2012 Answers: 327 Last Update: July 8, 2016 Visitors: 15851
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