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Very judgmental. This is a question of a simple answer and it appears you are more judgmental than supportive. I feel this site is to encourage others not push them down judging their behavior. But thanks for trying.

Thank you!! This really helped.

That really helps! Thank yoU!

I just wanted to thank yo. I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart! I am taking your thoughts into consideration. It's great to receive a neutral point of view for a change. Thank you again

As far as I know they argued and broke up the same night, and fully know she didn't sleep with anyone that night.

Thank you

Thanks that made me feel much better and I hope I can reach a healthy weight, thanks so much for your support

I believe you are right. I do feed him all the time and show h more love i cuddle his belly and give him kisses and baby him alot my bf does none of that just ignores him when he gets home. Thanks for your input

thank you for the advice! I've thought about nuvaring, I may try to go with a copper iud or something because it doesn't have hormones. It's the hormones that get me and make me feel crazy. I will definitley talk to my dr and fill them in more specifically and hopefully they can do some tests!

yes! that is what it is thank you!

Thank you!!!

Thank you. I hadn't really thought about how it might change our friendship if I brought it up. If for some reason our situations change, I'll reconsider, but for now I think we're happy where we are.

I think you are right. Could it be though that they make stupid shows to make stupid kids who will demand even dumber shows? Also kids now buy EVERYTHING disney and nickelodeon tells them to buy then tells them to throw it all away and buy the next thing they have to sell. think of all the hannah montana that is in the trash now. :(

thank you! but "swallowing HER sperm?" what!? LOL! :)

Ha, awesome! I know (and like) most of the ones you mentioned, and would have reccomended the same songs by them. Thanks for the ones I didn't know!

Thank you so much!

Thank You!

Hey,I'm a guy!

Thank you.

This helped a lot! I will definitely do the jar thing! Thank you so much. :) Also, I'm going to make an appointment to be put on birth control soon.

True enough,Thanks!

this is from a while back but thank you. this really did help when i needed it. Now looking back on it, that was probably the best choice i could have made in the situation.

thank you but i was hoping there was an operation to make me virgin again

thanks so much for your advise.

Thank you!

Ohhhh my goodness, that's perfect! Hahaha, next time I'll definitely use that excuse, LOL. Thank you, and yeah hahahaha, it is a pretty odd story... xD

thanks, like i said to another answer, we are always honest with eacother. he called me a bitch once when he was in a mood, but i did talk to him and we are okay now.

Really?I already knew that.

Thanks! :)

Thanks :) <3

lol we had the best night ever :}

Great advice, IF the situation was different. Maybe, if I felt like speaking to the fellow, then I would. But I really don't to be honest. I don't understand why I should make an effort if he doesn't. But thanks, regardless :)

Thanks,Yeah I masturbate a lot and can make myself orgasm but it's only really from clitoral stimulation. And he never tries oral on me..Only did like once or twice..I get the feeling he probably doesn't like it which makes me feel really awkward like there's something wrong or whatever. He isn't small in that area at all he's like average size. (my previous boyfriend who I didn't have sex with was waay smaller) So idk. But good advice and i'l take it on board thanks again!

it can't be my period cause i have it two weeks ago..... the blood doesn't mean the himen broke?

I understand it's not a diet. But did you completely miss the part where I said that I was eating healthier and less than I used to? Thanks for being completely unhelpful.

great thanks!

uhm, was this supposed to help? it didnt O.O

Ok thanks

thank you that makes me feel better :D

Thanks! I did the perfume thing and my boyfriend said it was awful to have a perfume smell down there. he hated it and wouldn't go down on me till i believed him and stopped.

He already knows but he just ignores it and my friend did something like this. The only reason he didn't talk to her about it was because he didn't know if it was the truth or not.

Well I'm 15.. and I'm in high school.. Some people can trace their relationships back to when they met in 3rd grade.. so i don't believe in an age limit to love someone... And there's really nothing wring with my spelling or grammar i was in a hurry when i put this.. I don't go back and correct my self when i get finish i click submit.. And i go to a school where virgins are like unicorns... I'm still a virgin and i think i'm in love.. and most people say there's nothing wring with that....

thanks:)

thats actually what i was going to do, but get it up my the side of my calf but i dont anymoree

Thank you, but you only answered 1 question.

To answer it, yes I love him. But i'm not sure if he's the one, because of my religion. I know I might regret it, because we brake up then get together again, but I love him, and to be honest, when we almost did it, I wanted to go all the way it felt soo right, and we both really want to. I'm pretty sure he wants to but won't force me into nothing, I just want to because sometimes I get horny lol & i just want to do it with him, but I freak out. Idk i'm confused...

you are right:)

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