Member Since: August 25, 2012
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Last Update: August 25, 2012
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I made out with one of my best friends one weekend. We didn't talk about it the following week.
Then the next weekend we both went to a party and I ended up staying at another friend's house and drunkenly had sex for the first time. The asshole didn't even use anything.
I told my best friend straight away and he stopped talking and looking at me altogether.
I then completely killed everything by drunk texting him 'I hate you'. I then went on to apologise and called myself a 'disgusting whore', to which he replied 'stop guilt tripping me', 'I can't even look at him (the guy I did it with) the same' before he said to 'never text or call' again and to 'go to hell'.
So I deleted his number to do just as he said. About a week later I get told by a mutual friend that he wasn't mad at me, so I tried to talk to him but he always says he's busy. I've tried for about 3 weeks. It's not an excuse but I'm so shy I kinda die when someone asks me to repeat something cause I think I said it wrong. I'm thinking of just giving up altogether on any type of relationship, friendship or otherwise. Opinions? (link)
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Don't give up.
At some point he is your friend right? or was but either way, I'm sure your 'friend' has his reasons. Whatever it is. Maybe his misunderstood. Just don't give up, do everything you can to reach out to him. Or maybe he likes you, I guess he's just scared to tell you.
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