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Location: FL
Occupation: Student/office assistant
Age: 22
Member Since: August 7, 2012
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Last Update: September 20, 2012
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this sophmore ( im a juniro) asked me to come over to her house, randomly. she always texts me throughout the day and im sure she likes me. Does she want to hook up? even if i dont respond in a minute or 2 she has sent me a message saying stuff like "you dont want to tlak to me." shes sexy and i honestly only want to hook up , do you think she has the same intentions? PS . this girl kept texting me a while ago but i ended it cuz she was obsessive but she just started texting me again.
Being a girl, when I was a sophomore in high school I NEVER intended to hook up with guys.
You really should be honest with her. She may actually have some real feelings for you and out of respect, it'd be better if you let her know that you are only interested in hooking up. After that let her make the decision, as to whether or not she wants to keep talking to you.
It wasn't until I was in college that I didn't mind relationships that are more casual. Girls think differently than guys do, but it's always important to be honest about your intentions.
Please don't be rude and lead her on and just assume. Don't be afraid to be honest about things. Tell her what's up, tell her you're only interested in the "friends with benefits" role, and go from there.
If she continues to text like that after your honesty, then it's on her if she gets hurt in anyway, unfortunately.
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thanks alot that helped
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