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Hello im 18, female. well me and my ex boyfriend dated for around 1 year, and we had a break like 2 weeks ago, then we got back. but he finished it with me :(
Basically i always tell my boyfriend everything, and on saturday night he found out something about me from when i was 14, (sexual) and well i didnt tell him, he got really put off and told me that im a liar, he said that he dont trust me.
Yet i tried to explain myself and nothing, he said that it 'grim' being with a liar :( how without any trust we wont work. But honestly theres just certain things i cant always tell people.
I love him, im his first love our break up has been so hard when he said 'were finished' :'( i dont know whether he regrets it or not. But it hurts like hell, i have no idea if we'll ever get back, i have lied to him before , but i always fight for this rs to make it right, i know i committed a mistake but il do anything to make it right.
we aint spoken since he ended it... do u think it hurts him that he ended it? like i know he loves me, everything was going so amazing when we got back :'(
i miss him, please tell me what i can do?
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You should explain your side of things. Tell him that you're usually closed off about certain intimate details about your life and that it's difficult to share them with people. You didn't necessarily lie, you just didn't tell him every single detail. He can't expect you to list off every detail about your life, it should just come up in conversation and you mention it. Anyway, I'm sure it hurts him inside, and you both feel upset. Sit down and talk to him, and see how it ends up. In the end, if you don't end up together, you have to learn from it and move on. It will hurt, a lot, but he might not be who you end up with, and that's okay. Just be honest, and see if you can work it out.
Hope this helps, keep me updated!
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(Rating: 4) :( but its so hard, like we spoke earlier on he was like 'il move on quick , and il start seeing new people' but its not even like that, ive never been in love like this, he keeps telling me that 'im sure u miss me ' in a sarcastic way. like no one gets me :'( im so depressed, its only been lie 4 days since we ended and its making things so hard for me..
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