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He broke up with me for his ex girlfriend and then yesterday he told me he left his ex girlfriend because she is too up tight for him. He wants to be friends now. But I still like him... A lot! I don't know if I should be friends with him because he doesn't feel the same way. What do I do? Be friends with him or don't? P.s we were friends before we started dating and personally I thought we got along better when we were dating. (link)
You are young and should not worry too much about finding someone to love you, and instead love yourself the way you want to be loved and you'll attract much more positive people in your life. Always remember that you are important and what may please one might not please someone else. The thing with guys, is that they always want what they cannot have, and by this, i don't mean be 100% unreachable, i mean, DO YOU. Do things that make you happy, erase negativity from you life, talk to him but don't give him even 70% of your attention. Have priorities, enjoy his company (not physical) talk to him, yeah flirt here and there but don't let him know how much you are in LOVE with him, or how much you desire him. Keep some mystery, make sure you are the best person you can be in all aspects, confidence in a girl is killer! Knock him dead with who you really are @(ᵕ.ᵕ)@ BE HAPPY.


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Thank you. You are right, I need to focus on me and not others right now. (:




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