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okay, does this sound screwed up to you? my best friends ignore me, and im pretty sure they dont like me cause i can tell they talk about me behind my back (and when im right next to them sometimes) but then two seconds later they skype call me and act like nothings wrong or when they ignore me and act like complete bitches to me and insult me i get upset then one of the may be like "whats wrong?" even though its pretty obvious. and two out of the three of them got in a fight with me once and told the other one they didnt like me but the other one was there for me and fixed everything.. but now shes seeming to be the bitchiest lately. i was in a fwb relationship with this guy who was there for me throughout everything and ALL we did was like cuddle and hangout and go out to eat sometimes and kiss but we hadn't made out yet cause i was waiting for the right time (i mean we weren't even dating so it's not like i was rushing anything) and he just dropped me out of no where cause "it was gettin too serious" even though WE DIDNT EVEN DO ANYTHING. and now hes with some other chick doing the same thing to her. and im prettyy sure he just was using me for a bootycall. even though everything felt real. and now i have to make the decision of moving. honestly i only have to stay in this town for one more year then im for sure moving to a big city but i dont know whether to wait everything out until it gets better or to just move to some really small christian school that i know nothing about. I do have other friends at my school, but i don't know. Right now everythings just screwed up and I have no idea what to do with my life. (link)
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I get the feeling that you are fairly young.
Ok hun...reality check. If your so called friends are talking about you behind your back...they aren't your friends...they're bitches. Good friends don't bad mouth you. I've known plenty of fair weather friends...so over them. Ditch the idiots. You are so better than them. Stick with the friends that make you feel good about yourself.
With regards your FWB...it's about sex nothing but sex. The fact that you are waiting for the right time and you haven't done anything but hangout etc...that's not FWB...that is more of a relationship...hence exit side left buh bye Mr Dipshit. FWB is you scratch my itch, I scratch yours. If you are not ready for sex, then don't get a FWB. It's not about emotions...it's about the moment. Like you said booty call. Booty call = FWB. Understand? Men don't define you...you do!
Take a deep breath, you are not alone in what you are experiencing. You have a year left...and it is a different ballgame in the city. Your life may feel awful...do what you need to do...to be happy, to be confident in yourself. After all it may seem vain but it is all about you...what you want, what you need. Good luck and I hope it all comes good for you.
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