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Q: Ok so I reccently broke up with a guy and I still love him. I broke up with him because he was issolating me from my friends. He said last night that he still likes me alot and then today, I caught him wheeling my best friend. He says it was to make me jealous but I honestly was in so much pain not jealously. It is painful to see him at school all the time. I couldnt stop thinking about him last night and I fell asleep to mine and his song and everytime I hear the song, I start to cry because I love him but let him go. None of my friends likes him for issolating me and my best friend (the one hes wheeling) was talking to me today and she said that he pushed her but she kinda acted like she liked it. I love him so much and I told him this and he said that he doesnt want to have to wait for me forever. Its painful to see him and talk to him and I cry when mine and his song plays, I love him so much. What should I do?

In all honesty, why can't you just sit this guy down and talk to him and try to work it out? Why can't you just tell him you need to time with your friends as much as you need time with him? I mean... honesty and communication make a good relationship so if you couldn't even tell him that you wanted to spend time with your friends without him freaking... your relationship wasn;t that great.

Rating: 4

uhm, was this supposed to help? it didnt O.O

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Hi, thanks for coming to my column.

The name is Diamond but Dia is fine.

20, female, jersey girl at heart. mixed race taurus natured woman.

So...the reason I made this was during the start of my senior year of high school I had reached a point in my life where I didn't want to live anymore. I was tired of fighting and didn't see the reasons to fight. It was a random stranger that made me realize I would be stupid to take my life and to stop fighting.

So if you think I'm going to tell you life gets easier, I'm not. Let's face it, it doesn't get easier. Through pain you get stronger and learn to open your eyes to those things that give you strength to live.

Mine happen to be music, writing, dr. pepper, anime, the color black, the way rain sounds, and an amazing boyfriend. What gives you strength to live?