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Hey, 18/f
Okay so basically I'm just wondering is it necessary to tell your boyfriend EVERYTHING?
We have been together for two and a half years and he knows pretty much everything about me as do I him.
But there is one particular incident in my past that I don't feel comfortable discussing with anyone. I don't want him to think differently of me telling him about it just isn't an option.
He asked me before had I any secrets and I just said no then he said If I had then all of this is for nothing.
It's not like I'm lying to him or anything there are just certain things I like to keep private. Surely that's allowed?
I asked my mum and even she says she has stuff my dad doesn't know about.
Does this make me a bad person?It's literally just this one thing.
Any advice appreciated thank you in advance. (link)
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No not at all. Having your privacy doesnt make you a bad person. There are certain things you can always keep a secret. If you are going to be uncomfortable sharing this particular thing with your boyfriend, then dont do it. You do not have to be guilty. Everybody has a right to have a personal life (as long as you know you are right). But however sometimes letting things out which have always bothered you to a trust worthy person can make you feel light. That is again based on your discretion of who you are comfortable talking about it to.
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