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Hey, 18/f
Okay so basically I'm just wondering is it necessary to tell your boyfriend EVERYTHING?
We have been together for two and a half years and he knows pretty much everything about me as do I him.
But there is one particular incident in my past that I don't feel comfortable discussing with anyone. I don't want him to think differently of me telling him about it just isn't an option.
He asked me before had I any secrets and I just said no then he said If I had then all of this is for nothing.
It's not like I'm lying to him or anything there are just certain things I like to keep private. Surely that's allowed?
I asked my mum and even she says she has stuff my dad doesn't know about.
Does this make me a bad person?It's literally just this one thing.
Any advice appreciated thank you in advance. (link)
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You don't need to tell each other every little detail of your life. Unless it is something that is harmful or something bad you might want to consider telling him about it. My boyfriend knows things about me that I've never told anyone before and if anything it makes us closer. I know things about him as well. I guess what I'm trying to say is in a relationship you should be able to talk to your partner about what you want to. It's up to you about what you want to tell him and what you want to keep a secret.
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Rating: 5
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Thanks :) I've told him stuff I haven't told anyone before it's just this one thing.
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