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I'm with this boy, we arent' dating or anything but we are a "thing" lately he hasn't been himself. I'm really good friends with his best friend and he's dropping hints like "trust me i know him, just keep your guard up" and when i ask him to explain all he says is "I can't really say much on this subject but just know i have your back" i'm not being told something important and apparently i'll find out "sooner rather than later"
i know there is something going on with this guy i have a "thing" with but i don't know what.....is my guy friend preparing me for a hearbreak?
i am 16 and a female (link)
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It's hard to say but those aren't good signs from what you have written. I would say this is a red flag and that you should run. First off this "thing" you have...why can't he be your boyfriend? Was it his idea to be a "thing"? If that's the case than he either has commitment issues or he doesn't really want a relationship he just wants a hook up buddy.
Second off if his friend is warning you about him that's a HUGE sign to walk away. If his friend is telling you to keep your guard up than you know something is up with this guy.
I was with a guy for 7 months...can you believe it? 7 MONTHS!!?! His friend kept warning me about him and I just ignored it. We never made it official I guess you could say we had a "thing". Finally one day I realized I could do better and I moved on.
I'm sorry to say but this just sounds bad and the sooner you walk away the better. You don't deserve to be treated like that.
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