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Q: Hi!I'd like somebody to help me on this,I have a boyfriend and I love him very much,but a couple of days ago I met this incredibly cute guy on a bus on my way to the doctor,well we started to talk and that was just it,I'm such a fool 'cause I gave him my phone number so he has been calling me several times,I don't know how to get rid of him,my partner still doesn't know anything about it of course,it'd hurt him so much,you know,well I know you may think that I like this other guy,well...I do:(,but at the same time I do know that it's not correct,I love my boyfriend a lot,and I wouldn't like to fall for any other guy,I'm so confused,I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO,KISS!
If you loved your boyfriend, to be brutally honest you would be going around thinking "hey that guy is cute so i'll give him my number" and then not only that but you actually did talk to him. No offense but did you think about how your boyfriend will feel? I mean how would you feel if the guy you apparently "love" so much saw some girl that he thought was hot and decided to give her his number and started texting her all the time? I bet... you wouldn't feel great. You need to tell the guy you have a boyfriend, and probably tell your boyfriend. Expect either a fight or you getting dumped.

you are right:)

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Hi, thanks for coming to my column.

The name is Diamond but Dia is fine.

20, female, jersey girl at heart. mixed race taurus natured woman.

So...the reason I made this was during the start of my senior year of high school I had reached a point in my life where I didn't want to live anymore. I was tired of fighting and didn't see the reasons to fight. It was a random stranger that made me realize I would be stupid to take my life and to stop fighting.

So if you think I'm going to tell you life gets easier, I'm not. Let's face it, it doesn't get easier. Through pain you get stronger and learn to open your eyes to those things that give you strength to live.

Mine happen to be music, writing, dr. pepper, anime, the color black, the way rain sounds, and an amazing boyfriend. What gives you strength to live?

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