Q: Hi, I'm 14/f and there is a boy I like and I'm not sure if he likes me back...
When we're alone, he would be sweet, flirty & giggly (& a little sexual which is just him kidding... I think) but in front of people he'd be not exactly mean, but he wouldn't look at me or talk to me like he does when we're alone. He won't make fun of me but he'd scoot away as if I did something wrong. He'd ignore me when I call his name, & I don't want to annoy him so I just move away when his friends come in and smile at him :) I can tell by the look on his face and his eyes that he doesn't want me to move away but he doesn't say anything, in fear that he will be made fun of again. Isn't that so cute?
People also make fun of us a lot because I usually go over and sit next to him in class and he would be flirting and all that and his friends would come in and be like "awe you guys are so cute together, you'd make a cute couple" then I'd blush and look away. But on the other hand, he'd not be so happy about it. He just completely shut down. The smile goes away from his face, he won't look at me, & all I do is just move away because he gets mad after a while (but I'm not sure because there was this one time when he was mad when he came into class & then his friends started to make fun of us was when he got mad, so I'm not really sure if he was mad at me at first, (if any of this even makes sense)) and the last thing I want is for him to be mad at me.
I have been thinking about putting a cute little note in his locker, and I know what I want to say (in general) I just don't know exactly how to say it. I want to ask him to wait for me so we can talk after school, but I don't know exactly how to word it. Just in case you were wondering what I wanted to talk to him about, I wanted to ask him why he was doing this. Is this a bad idea?
Should this be a red flag?
What does it mean when a guy does this?
Is it possible that he likes me?
How should I word my note?
If I shouldn't do the note at all, how should I approach him about it?
Thank you all in advance!
