Member Since: February 18, 2012
Answers: 11
Last Update: March 22, 2012
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im 13/f, im 85 pounds, and i can call myself pretty(: its okay to think your pretty and fit right? Never have i ever hugged a cute boy, dated, had my first kiss, made out, lost my virginity, humped, nothing! is that bad? im 14 in 5 months. i feel like everyone has! especially dated, hugged, or had their first kiss! i havent, is that bad? plus my parents are super awkward, and i would never talk about boys in front of them. if i dated though, it would be a secret. should i be worried? (link)
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DO NOT WORRY! I am also 13 (14 next month) and I have not had my first kiss, made out, lost my virginity or humped. I do have a boyfriend of 2 years and all we have really done is held hands and hugged, trust me it may seem like fun to have a boyfriend but it is so much easier being single. You may seem like the odd one out when it comes to it but when those things happen for you it will be so much more special and meaningful BECAUSE you have not done them before. I know personally how it feels with awkward parents, but DO NOT keep a boyfriend from them! If you do that they WILL find out, they always do and that will lead you nowhere. If it comes down to it, I know it seems hard, but talk to your parents, see where they stand, trust me it IS important and DO NOT over think the situation! You do not NEED a boyfriend, it is not an obligation for you, no matter what people say. If you like a guy and want to date him by all means go ahead, but if you are not ready for any of it then do not do it just to fit in. And, unless your hugs are tight and sexual, hugging is not really something to worry about AT ALL. Keep your head up and remember STOP WORRYING AND DO NOT OVER THINK IT!!!
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thank you so much!(: glad someone can relate! really helpful, im not worried anymore :D
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