Don't do it.

I lost my virginity at 13 years old, and around 15 became sexually active. I regret it very much. I have to deal with the fact that my husband, knows exactly how many women he's slept with, and I can't remember or count the amount that I have because I started at such a young age.

Wait until you are ready, when you know it is the right moment. If you have to question it you are in no way ready for sex, and at 13 you are in no place for commitment. Sex is a commitment, to yourself, to your partner, to be safe and secure. You have to trust the person you are having sex with as well.

I'm telling you to wait, but if you have already done it you're not a whore, you're not a bad person. You just made a bad mistake, people (like me) do it all the time.

I hope I helped

-Alyssa

OMG! THANK YOU! i only wanted to have sex with one guy ever and if i had so many guys i couldnt even count them all i think would feel like a slut and i mean no offence for sure please understand that! i cant even imagine a man excepting me if i couldnt say even how many dudes i made sex with your husband must be like the most awesome man ever! when i get married if my guy says he cant cvount how many girls he banged and doesnt even know all the names of them i am serious i woud kill him when he sleeps LOL! so you like changed my WHOLE look on sex and i am sorry you had to learn this so badly :( i hope you know your hubby is way awesome and you do everything to make him happy! bake him a cake or something maybe give it to him naked i dont know lOL! thank you for being honest you serioucly kept me from doing it! THANK YOU!

About me...I'm 21 and living a normal life. My husband and I just recently got married and we work and do the main things that keep us going. I love to give advice to people in need. I have experienced a lot in my short life, so don't be shy!

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