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Hey, my name is Katie. I live in Australia with my fiance and 2.5 beautiful children. In my 24 years i have had many ups and downs. I've lost loved ones, I've suffered depression, I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship which ended badly, I've cheated and been cheated on, I've been homeless, I've had cancer... Thats just the tip of the ice-berg. I think I'm pretty well qualified to answer pretty much anything you throw at me.
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Age: 23
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in september 2010 i hit a state of depression really bad and i was in that state till march 2011, that was due to an ex harrasing me and 3 close family and friends passing away.... i now feel how i did then always down only laughing with others to fit in, this time it all started due to me finding out im pregnant and having alot of complications (e.g. 3/6 tests positive and an inconclusive blood test) this has caused my to so called best friends who i considered family and whoi trusted with all my heart to fall out with me! its got to the point i cant even go into college anymore so i have work sent home and i struggle to go to my job... do this mean i am bk in the state of depression? if no why do i feel this way?
It sounds like you're having a rough time. Do these feelings feel similar to the ones you were experiencing in 2010? Depression is something that stays with you for life and there are many things which can trigger it again and it depends on how you manage it as to how your life will pan out. Your situation with the pregnancy and your friends sounds like it would put a strain on your mental health, but maybe you need to see it as a time where you can spend focusing on yourself for a while... Find something you're passionate about and do it. For me, when i was in that deep dark depression hole, it was writing. I love to write, so i'd sit and write and write letters to the people who have hurt me or who i have hurt but never intending on giving the letters to those people. If you cant stop yourself feeling this way maybe you need to see a doctor and get medicated for a while.....
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yeh the feeling are similar to before, i like the idea of finding that something for me to focus on i will give it ago thank you x
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