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Hey, my name is Katie. I live in Australia with my fiance and 2.5 beautiful children. In my 24 years i have had many ups and downs. I've lost loved ones, I've suffered depression, I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship which ended badly, I've cheated and been cheated on, I've been homeless, I've had cancer... Thats just the tip of the ice-berg. I think I'm pretty well qualified to answer pretty much anything you throw at me.
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Age: 23
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Ok im 18 and I want to pop my cherry so i can finger and play with my self. But I don't want a boy to do it because then I will not be a virgin. Whats the best way to do this? And what is the true meaning of being a virgin? Is it like when you have sex with a boy or when you pop you cherry? I don't want to rush in to this then feel sorry later. Thanks.
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I have already have tryed with my figers and they are to short. OMG!! so i just took a barbie doll that my sister took from me years ago. When i put it up there i felt a some pain but i freak out and did not do it that's why I need some help.
What you need to understand is that there isnt actually anything to 'pop'. Yes there is a thin piece of skin that breaks, usually through intercourse, but it is not something that pops or that you can feel 'breaking'. And you most definitely do not need to do it so you can play with yourself. You can do that without 'popping your cherry'.
I suggest you go buy a vibrator, just as most of the other advice givers have suggested. This way you have something to satisfy your urges and you can get the most out of your alone time. Also there wont be the awkward pain when you find a guy to have sex with for the first time.
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