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Ok so Im 12 and I currently have a wonderful boyfriend but he kinda flirts with my best friend. When Im aorund him he doesnt givve me any special attention though. He is my first boyfriend, and slow dance. Then theres this other guy who is a year older than me (13). He IM's me 24/7 he admitts to me that he kinda likes me but likes other people too. I kinda am falling for him and I dont know what to do. We were playing truth over IM the other day and he said that he reall wants to kiss me. I have never kissed anyone before but he has kissed alot of other girls. I asked him for one of my questions if he would ever kiss me while im still dating ___? and he said yes. I have something in side me that wants to kiss him but the other part of me doesnt because i already have a boyfriend. I dont know what to do because the other guy said 'It would be worth kissing you even though I might get slapped'. PLEASEE help, I dont know what to do :( (link)
Well you already know what you're doing is wrong because something is holding you back from kissing this other guy. You're with your boyfriend and you care about him because you don't want to hurt him. I don't think you like your boyfriend as much as you think you do and that's okay. Even talking like this to another guy behind your boyfriend's back is a bit sneaky. If you are interested in this other guy I would break it off with your boyfriend. Or if you care about your boyfriend and want to be with him then you need to stop talking to this other guy. You can't have your cake and eat it too. It has to be one or the other!


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Rating changed by DN: Your account has been closed. You have to have respect for the people who try and help you.

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Umm i can like both just for your info so uh dont fucking tell me i can onnly like one because i love my boyfriend and it may seem wrong but i broke up with him, kissed the other guy and asked him out again so fuck u!




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