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Played volleyball for over 10 years, also a coach. I love to try new things. Currently I'm trying the new sport of tennis and learning about my passion of photography.

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I meet this guy a month ago. he is very nice and very outgoing. the past few days he started changing, he tells em im going to call you but he never does, i invited him to a party but he never went. he decided to go with his friends somewhere else. i wrote to him telling him how i dint wanted to see him again because he is a lier. he told me he wanted to see me tonight to talk things out but guess what? he never called me to hang out and talk. I came to a point where i cant handle this anymore. I was catching feelings for him but i guess that's going to start fading. Im so dissapointed tho :( I don't know what to do. what will you do in this situation? (by the way he is a taxy driver)

hey. I am in the same situation. So while I am helping you, in a way i'll be helping myself too :)

here's my story:

I met a guy through some mutual friends. we really got along and after 2 or 3 weeks I started to fall for him. We had a thing going on for about a month and a half, until he started changing. He wouldn't text me back, he didn't want to hang out as much, and it just seemed like something was always wrong with him. I was so upset that I convinced myself to fall out of love with him and move on. So that is what I did. It was a tough journey for me.. and it still is. I still think about him all the time and wonder "what if". Him and I are starting to get back into touch. we're talking every now and then. Actually, we have plans tonight to see a movie. Everytime we made plans to hang out, he's bailed and done something else. So I'll see tonight if he sticks with this plan. If not, then I'm calling it quits because I don't want to keep waiting for something if it might not even happen.

So here's my advice to you. I know its tough but you really should find a way to move on from him. Life is only so short.. so make the most of it. One of the biggest things i hate is wasting time. Nobody should ever have to waste time for someone else's sake. He isn't doing anything for you, he's not calling you back, not wanting to hang out, he's not even staying true to his words... so why should you put all the effort and time into something that he won't even do himself?

Try doing other hobbies and activities to get your mind off of things. I started photography which takes up a lot of my time. its really fun, I enjoy it, It makes me happy, and takes my mind off him and the stress. I also hang out with friends more and I make a lot of new friends whenever I can. After a while, he will soon be out of your mind. Its hard, but its possible.

Just keep your head held high and know that NOBODY should make you feel this way. you don't deserve it. Do what makes you happy, and then let the rest happen by itself :)

good luck and inbox me if you need more hep!

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