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General question...
We fought a lot, we werent even "together" but couldve... anyway, we were both mad at each other, now he doesnt e mail... he didnt reply..
i feel i missed who i thought he was...
do guys mean what they say when they say they dont care, do they really NOT care? or like girls, do they still think of what couldve happened, what is she thinking...
why do girls think a LOT about situations, and guys seem to dont care as much?
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It all depends on the situation and who the guy is and how they deal with things. Everyone copes differently and everyone deals with things differently. A guy is least likely to show any kind of emotion where as a girl is more likely to get really emotional. There was a time where I've fought with a guy and he said he didn't care I wouldn't hear from him for months or even years and randomly they would either show up or call or text me randomly out of nowhere. And sometimes the guy would never contact me again. You have to understand whatever is going on now isn't important. If someone wants to be in your life they will be in your life. ANd if someone wants to walk away from you let them walk. Some people are meant to be with us in our future and others aren't and thats just the way it is.
It's hard to let someone go trust me I've been there but if they care about you and they truly love you they will come back. SOmetimes they come back at the right time and sometimes they don't come back at the right time.
like girls, do they still think of what couldve happened, what is she thinking...
why do girls think a LOT about situations, and guys seem to dont care as much?
I'm sure guys think of the "shoulda", "coulda", and "woulda" but in the end how does that help? Don't live in the past, as hard as that may seem it's not going to help you any. I know you are trying to find the answers and surfing on the web to see if you cna get some closure. The best thing you can do is take care of yourself and make yourself happy right now. Guys come and go, and I'm sure there will be another guy in your future and you'll forget what this one's last name was. As girls, we follow our emotions, sometimes its okay to and other times not so much. It's sometimes makes us look illogical because we don't think of the outcome or what could happen we just think how we are feeling in that moment. That one moment though can somehow affect much more. The myth I don't believe is that guys don't care, they care its just they don't show it as much as we women do. That's just how it is. Hang in there and try not to worry about it too much!
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I love you!! you have given me (confirmed) what i have been feeling, thinking and im not crazy!! i appreciate your kind words and yup am healing now and its funny the way you said il forget about him, i sure wish we can edit our memories and leave the good memories behind..yeah, boys and girls are supposed to be complimentary and the one for me or for him is not there yet, and il be healing soon and im just feeling sad on idle time i guess.. il keep busy and keep praying and I hope you keep on giving good advice. isnt this site so wonderful!! I wish i could heal like you too! Have a good weekend!! thank you so much!!!
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